posted 09-30-2003 11:30 AM         

I have a friend who has one cat (the only pet) who has been talked to and cuddled and loved to death! This is the friendliest cat you have ever seen. He acts like part cat, part dog, part bird, and part human. He talks all the time and loves to be held cradled like a baby.

My cats are loving, too. One goes mostly to me. The other has chosen my daughter as her person.

My question is, what are people's opinions about whether a cat bonds as well to his people if there is another cat present?

With dogs, they say it is better to get just one dog and if you want a second dog to wait a good year or so before getting one. Has anyone noticed this with a cat? i.e. get one at a time and really bond with them before getting another?

Thanks for your opinions!

posted 09-30-2003 12:33 PM         

It's just my opinion, but I don't think having more than one cat would affect their affection for a human. I could totally be wrong on that, though. But, each of my cats has a totally different personality. They range from so affectionate and loveable to happy to be around people but like to be on their own. I think a lot of that is just personality and not because of other cats.

posted 09-30-2003 09:59 PM         

As for cat's bonding, I think it depends on the cat (and the owner). I've known a cat that hated all other cats, but loved people. One that hated people too, even though he was loved more than the other cats (he was a dictator cat). I also had the pleasure of adopting a stray I called King because he was stunningly beautiful and had an amazing character. He was confident and friendly, loved people (and children), got on well with every cat, and just seemed to own our place when he arrived (I think my cats adopted him really).

Cats are individuals alright. Treating them well will bring out the best in them though.

posted 10-01-2003 07:41 AM         

Thanks everyone!