posted 07-15-2003 11:36 AM         

We're looking to get a puppy for the family and have done extensive research on different breeds, size, coats, personalities, etc. We've narrowed it down to 3 different dogs: cockapoo, maltipoo, and shih poo. We have to have a small dog, and we also have 4 children (16, 13, 11, and 3) rabbits and 2 cats. We've had dogs before, and even did rescue work. I feel we know what we're after, and have read books about temperment testing a pup, and have found a good breeder that has a nice reputation from the local PetsMarts, PetCo's and a few other folks we've bumped into that have bought from him before. Now it's down to what will work with our family.

I'd like to ask the forum what their opinions would be in the differences of personality traits between a Shih Poo and a Maltipoo. We have kids visiting vastly over the summer months, and my 3 year old (as dog saavy as he is...) can be hyper (although he knows not to hit or chase the dog - as was stated before, we've had rescues here and he's very good about his behaviour when he's very near the dogs) - but we're looking for something that can take the "punishment" of an active family with kids and kid noise and such, and not lose it's mind (lol).

A cockapoo is our first choice (we've had an abused cocker for 7 years and I grew up with a cockapoo who lived 18 years, but I want to have as much information behind me before we go out and see what litters are available and temperment test any pups. We want a nice middle-of-the-road dog that can keep up with the flow of things when everyone is at home, but still be happy when the kids are all in school and there is quiet time in the house (which is one of MY favorite times! lol). Any suggestions as to which breed mix might fair better?