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A Letter to Jon (for those who know the situation)

Discussion in 'Cats - all breeds / types' started by darkrabbit213, Oct 27, 2004.

  1. darkrabbit213

    darkrabbit213 New Member

    Dear Jon,
    If I remember correctly, just the other day you were saying how your promise to give Lone Wolf away when he was old enough was very important, I even understood what you meant when you said that five kittens is a lot for two teenagers to handle and take care of when they've only begun to take care of yourself. I understood all that. I also remember how you said you wanted to help us take care of them, and take the burden off of us at night by letting them play in the living room so we could sleep because you claim to be "nocturnal". I also remember you saying that they were "your kittens" because you owned the mother. Where do you feel that you have any right what so ever to claim them as yours? Have you ever bought them food? NO. Have you ever changed their litter? No. What have you done for them? SCARED THE CRAP OUT OF THEM BY DUNKING THEM INTO A FREEZING COLD BATHTUB. And then you said that you were sorry... and then you said you were teaching them a lesson for being "little bastards" (please excuse). How were they being "little bastards" when they were in MY room before you took them away and "bathed" (more like water torture/near freezing them to death) them for being bad.

    And then.... you decided you liked them again. And didn't care if they climbed on your speakers. We all thought that you had finally realized that they are TWO MONTH old helpless babies. When all of a sudden...

    You decided they were "too much to handle" and that they didn't deserve to live here. So what did you do? YOU PUT THEM OUTSIDE IN THE FREEZING COLD WITHOUT THEIR MOTHER, WITHOUT ANYTHING. So they could get lost and never be found! So they could freeze to death or get killed by some other sadistic kid! You are beyond the description of acceptable words (i know hundreds, trust me but they are not acceptable). And then, immediatley after you do this, you come and give us a lecture about being good children, doing dishes and taking care of ourselves and our dependency. And then you say, "oh yeah the kittens are outside, those damn bastards were tearing up my speakers!" (mind you, the speakers are covered in rug so the kittens think they are a cat tree). So we got them back. And they are fine. But I really hate him.

    -Miranda

    I hope this isn't innappropriate! I am just so angry with him... and I hate hate hate him!! Isn't that sadistic?
     
  2. vene

    vene New Member

    Bunny, you've got to try harder to leave this Jon forever. He is a danger to both people and pets. There's no telling what he is going to do next. You have every right to be angry at him. His actions and speech are anthything but normal. Group hugs and hang in tough. :m21:
     
  3. lynnhaz

    lynnhaz New Member

    well rabbit...i admire you, and i think the letter is appropriate. question is...will he change....

    id like to clock him :m3: :m36:

    just watch your expectations of him doing anything diffferent. and know this....WE ARE YOUR A #1 SUPPORTERS!!!

    :m21:
     
  4. Bente

    Bente New Member

    You have to move from this jerk right away Rabbit! Not only is he bad for the kittens, but hes also bad for you :m3: How does Patrick feel about Jon's behaviour? I know you're worried about not having enough money yet, but isn't it possible to borrow from a friend or family member that thrust you?

    :m21:
     
  5. Mary_NH

    Mary_NH New Member

    Rabbit...I know it's probably a money issue keeping you there but how old is your BF?
    Have either of you ever considered going for some financial aid (possibly through your city) and getting out of the situation you are in?
    This guy Jon sounds like a total goatlicking creep.
    I'm so glad those kittens have you to watch over them - god knows what would happen to them if you were not there. I shudder to think of the possibilities of what their future's would be like without you standing over them protecting them.
    Any chances of maybe you and your BF going back with your mother? I know you don't get along with her but maybe until you and the BF can get on your feet that could be an option
     
  6. sunset05

    sunset05 New Member

    Your story Rabbit is bringing tears to my eyes. I'm sorry you have to deal with this. I don't know the whole story about your situation but it sounds like you have to do some soul searching.

    I presume you are talking about your boyfriend. It sounds like he is not the most stable person in the world. The way he is treating the kitties is inexcusable and I hope he is treating you with respect and love.

    Sometimes you have to think not only with your heart but with you head. I hope things get better for you and the kitties. You may have to take some action if you want to change things. Best of luck.
     
  7. Bente

    Bente New Member

    Sunset: She is talking about her boyfriends brother, wich they live with for the moment :wink:
     
  8. lynnhaz

    lynnhaz New Member

    hang in there rabbit...thinkin about ya today!! :)

    makes you think about all the things you could do to a person in their sleep...like...tatooing "i abuse cats" on his forehead so that everywhere he goes...cat lovers will be mean to him.... :wink:

    i suppose thats not a very spiritual thought is it? gotta be careful of the karma thing too!!! :shock: maybe prayer...thats always the safest thing...praying that he will....

    GET A CLUE!! :m36:
     
  9. darkrabbit213

    darkrabbit213 New Member

    Well everyone, the big weekend is coming up. (This weekend consists of thursday-sunday for me.) Tomorrow Patrick is dropping out, so he can start to work full time. Then he's going to talk to his mother, and see if we can't get the $3,000 that we had saved up back from her.
     
  10. sunset05

    sunset05 New Member

    I didn't realize it was your boyfirend's brother. I didn't mean to speak out of turn and assume things.

    I hope things will get easier for you. Hang in there. You seem to be a person that cares. I wish the best for you and you boyfriend.
     
  11. nern

    nern New Member

    I'm so glad these kittens have you....otherwise they probably would'nt even be around anymore. I hope you can get out of this situation soon. Best wishes.
     
  12. EternalFlame

    EternalFlame New Member

    sad story.. good luck with things rabbit!
     

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