Spencerpits: You are so right. When someone has a question or concern, we need to go back and read what was initially posted. For example: when someone has a potty problem, the next thing you know we're discussing which dogs have the strongest muscles on page 3!!! We should become the best board on P.B.T. on the net, because there are some really crappy ones out there. When someone has a legit problem, let's check our emotions before we reply. I've been on the receiving end of the mud slinging. I learned from it, but it still made me feel bad. I feel really bad for my remarks on ADHD. It had nothing to do with what grlsrok even was asking about. I hope you accept my apology!!