Dealing with the Aftermath- My Story. Share Yours.

It's so sad to read everyones stories :cry:

Tango sounds like she was a very special and loving cat CockatielCrazy,
I'm so sorry for your loss.

Lil: If i understood (spelling?) your story right, it has been three years and you haven't picked up the ashes yet?
I don't think that makes you a bad person or a bad pet owner! I really don't.
Sometimes it's just too much going on in a persons life, and everything gets too much to handle.
If you feel like you have an understanding vet, maybe you could ask him/her what you should do?
Or maybe you could call to the place that did the cremation and ask how long they keep the ashes? Without saying yor name?
I'm so sorry for your loss :cry:

 

some people are just so stupidly idiotic about a persons feelings when your pet dies. they just don't get it.
when i was 3 or 4 i found a kitten outside of my grandmas house so i took it in and she said that i could keep it(my mom, brother and me were living with them at the time) and i fed it and played with it until bed time them i put the kitty in a box wiht a blanket to keep it warm and when i woke up the next day it was dead. i don't wven remember if i had named it. grandpa barried it out in the garden. i had it only for one night but i loved the litty guy. the night before i found buster i dreamed of my poor kitty. i like to think that it lead me to find buster. i know it was only for a few hours but i still miss it.